My “Autumn In The Desert” series takes place in a retirement community. All the main characters are 55 and older. Conventional wisdom says that retirement is a time for golf and steadily declining health. But that is a shallow and invalid viewpoint. And the worst thing you can do if you are 55 or older is to buy into it.
The media and our unfortunate culture on the one hand ply you with golden pictures of a happy retirement to keep you locked in a job you don’t really like during your middle years, wishing your life away. Then, when you arrive at retirement, the reality of it is rarely as rosy as you’ve been led to believe. That same media and culture convince you to buy into decrepitude and decaying health. They scare you into buying all kinds of insurance, none of which gives decent coverage. Then they give you a health care system that can’t fix you.
Aging is inevitable. But you would be wise to wake up and look critically at the picture of aging that you’ve been handed. Is it the way you want to live your Golden Years? From adult diapers to assisted living, aging is painted as a time of loss, constriction and giving up. You give up the dreams of fulfillment you had as a younger person. You let go of the idea you could be healthy as you age. You face financial and physical challenges that force you to downsize and give up hope.
It is my hope that readers of my “Autumn In The Desert” series will be able to see there are other ways of looking at life after retirement. You are a human being, with dreams and plans and the ability to make things happen. Yes, it can be late to start at age 60, but that’s the beauty of life. It’s never really too late to go after your dreams, to make a good life choice, to be the person you always wanted to be.
I wish there were more books with heroes our age. We need role models to remind us that retirement shouldn’t be a ghetto lifestyle filled with gloom and regret (even a gilded one), but an ongoing journey of discovery and fulfillment. What do you want to do with your Golden Years? Please let me know what you think in the Comments section below.